Opinion: Stop blaming school shootings on bullying
In light of the tragic school shooting in Michigan, it is important to reject attempts to link bullying to mass murder.
December 8, 2021
A 15-year-old sophomore school shooter committed a senseless act of violence at Oxford High School on Tuesday, Nov. 30. Eleven people were shot, three students died from their injuries and the rest were critically injured. A fourth student died the next day. The shooting at Oxford was the 27th mass murder of 2021 in the United States.
In the past, mass shootings in schools inspired debates about what potentially motivated attackers to open fire on classmates and teachers. Bullying seemed like the clear and easy answer. In 2004, the United States government released its Safe School Initiative report, claiming that 71% of attackers were motivated by social distress — the report’s seventh key finding read, “Many attackers felt bullied, persecuted, or injured by others prior to the attack.”
For years, the narrative that shooters were victims of bullying has persisted. Now, with the findings of the Oxford case, we need to stop excusing the actions undertaken by school shooters.
It was the Columbine High School shooting in 1999 that stirred the first contemporary conversations about school shooters and their motives. It was speculated that the school shooters committed the attacks because of bullying. More recently, the brother of the Stoneman Douglas High School shooter attributed his sibling’s violence to being bullied and isolated at school. Though bullying was not confirmed as the primary motive for either case, bullying is still believed by many to be the main cause behind school shootings.
TikTok user @elisse.01 said, “The year I graduated high school [2018] was, at the time, the worst year for school shootings and … high school students saw anti-bullying campaigns to prevent school shootings all the time. Which is extremely disingenuous because disabled kids, overweight kids, queer kids and kids of color are not shooting up schools. Those kids are the kids who are getting picked on the most. This is solely about entitlement … It is about brats throwing the ultimate tantrum — who are never held accountable for their actions.”
While school shooters may believe that they experience social ostracization and bullying in school, it is wrong to blame bullying for their heinous crimes. There are many victims of bullying in schools and very rarely do they kill their peers. In fact, LGBTQ+ kids, kids of color, kids with physical and learning disabilities, and class-disadvantaged kids are most vulnerable to bullying. Yet, they aren’t the majority of school shooters — around 90% of high school or elementary school shooters are white, male and upper middle class.
In a following TikTok, @elisse.01 said, “Bullying is intentional harassment. Bullying is not choosing to not interact with somebody. I am so tired of adults telling children that it is their responsibility to keep themselves from being killed, that they have to befriend that … punk so that he doesn’t kill them.”
Administrators had flagged the Oxford High School shooter’s recent, concerning behavior. He was called in to speak with school officials on the days before the shooting. His parents were brought in the morning of the shooting for an in-person meeting about an incident where the perpetrator had drawn a picture of a gun, a bullet, a blood victim and wrote: “help me.” Administrators ordered his parents to find counseling for their child within the next 48 hours. No one from the school thought to search the 15-year-old’s backpack.
This is perfectly emblematic of the larger issue: school shooters are often coddled — because of who they are — and ignored by parents and authorities in power. Had a Black or brown student so clearly illustrated a violent image, there would have been dire consequences. Blaming bullying is just another extent of this coddling.
Rather than acknowledging some of the reasons as to why certain white, male students who become school shooters are excluded from their peers — entitled attitudes, white supremacist beliefs and generally malicious personalities — we place the onus of preventing murder on children who could feel uncomfortable engaging with them. There is so much our government can do to prevent these horrible tragedies: conducting extensive background checks, abolishing private gun sales, removing automatic and semi-automatic weapons from public access, placing fees on ammunition, and expanding accessible psychological help centers for adolescents. Anti-bullying campaigns are misdirected efforts. Instead, we need to address the root causes of school shootings.
Contact Srishti Bungle at [email protected].
Patrick • Oct 24, 2022 at 11:36 am
The idiot that wrote this clearly never went though being mentally and emotionally tortured and at a time when your finding your place in the world, where you are vulnerable and still only child. No one is trying to condone shooting anyone. However the fact that she throws in lgbtq and colour intuitively can sense through this article she has some resentment oozing out of her towards white people. Probably male white people. I can tell you as someone who was bullied most days, physically and verbally. I didn’t want the attention. I just wanted to be a normal kid going to school like everyone else. However some people even in adulthood just are bullies, they have issues with themselves, maybe issues at home. Maybe they have been bullied also but the idiot who clearly wasted her money on a degree because it didn’t help her intelligence and no degree or education on your article can hide your biased agenda. Its disgusting, she would probably be the same person to defend one of her marginalised said groups if they committed an act if violence but used this tragedy to point score. Discusting and she should be ashamed of herself. Also to note when I was bullied, I woukd get grouped up upon relentlessly, in school, after school, things thrown at me, stuff made up about me, and if anyone put their hands on me and I “dared” to react there times i would get the blame. I have seen most schools try to pretend its not going on but because they are either too scared to deal with it or just think it will pass and don’t take it seriously. I’d be interested to hear what she would think if a child was getting beaten at home should do. Is the child somehow looking for attention. People like this in the article make me sick, covert people who use their position of “privilage” although they won’t admit it to. Id respect you more just said you don’t like anyone who was white particularly men. You wont do that though because being honest takes integrity and character and might mean someone would ask you to defend your position.
Jen • Jan 9, 2022 at 11:53 pm
This is one of the worst articles or opinions I have read about school shootings. You sound very out of touch with today’s kids or maybe you just didn’t do enough research. Not sure why you brought race into this either. Alfred University did some interesting investigation into this topic if you want to learn more about it
Austin • Dec 10, 2021 at 12:47 pm
Hooey!!! twenty years of sqauking about gun control has lead us where? Bullying in indeed a very important COMPONENT of this problem. And yes, it is a root cause…
Aisha • Dec 8, 2021 at 3:47 pm
I don’t believe kids kill people because of bullying. They couldn’t of done something else about it? I heard what was done to Eric Harris, Dylan and Michael Carneal but still. I don’t understand Eric Harris and Dylan Kleboid only had two weeks of school until they graduated. They couldn’t of tougher it out for fourteen days? It isn’t worth it.
Tyler ostrander • Jan 5, 2022 at 6:07 pm
I have gone to the principal and done something about it and none of it worked so well do you think I should do
Respect • May 29, 2022 at 2:49 pm
People that don’t understand it likely have never suffered through consistent bullying. This isn’t a compilcated issue. It’s an issue of character, integrity, and proper upbringing of people who do the bullying, as well as a total failure of options to those that are bullied. Some people can take a lifetime of bullying, while others have no real defense against it. Either way, I would literally bet my life (if this were such a thing) that you would see a large decrease in shootings if people respected each other and quit with the predatory nonsense to begin with.
Btw: this article stank more of an author who thinks too highly of herself and less of one that should research more.
M • Dec 8, 2021 at 10:57 am
phenomenal piece! you’ve summed up thoughts i’ve had perfectly. those in power refuse to acknowledge what is actually happening with school shootings and continue to place the blame on students/teachers to prevent them rather than looking at the source of the issue. really great work!